salam all!

a very very short updateeeee. ( like real gitu -___-)
anyways,
a not random thing but at the same time, a random thought ..
( whuuut? )
hmm ..

silence in friendships doesnt mean you dont know what the other person is thinking.

HAHA. but still, that is, if the friendship is sincerely based on sincere.
WHUUUUUT? never mindddd. heh.

okay, here's what fahmi matni wanted me to post about.
how to move on and why is it that very difficult.

first part of the qn, ' HOW TO MOVE ON? '

people will tell you, its not easy. ( that includes me, HAHA )
actual fact, it is easy. very much indeed, provided, you put your mind and soul into it.
say, ' im moving on and there's no turning back. '
say, ' i'll believe that Allah has arranged for me to meet someone waay better.'
but, if you meet someone worse theeenn, dah fated lah tuh.
its your responsibility given by Allah to change the person.
easy? yes yes yes. it all about your mind. its all about INFLUENCING your mind.

next, why is it then SO DIFFICULT?

you're just not trying hard enough.
every single thing that the person does will make you go head over heels.
the only person you need to place your trust and belief in is, yourself.
think logically. this is not the right time for you to be mixed with these feelings.
unless if, you have the moneeey then can straight masuk minang uh. hahah.
but, no right? so, focus on the more important matters first.
complete your studies! lagi penting babe.
no cert, no job, no money, no kahwin. TET.
your fate has been 'confirmed' all along.
it just takes time for you to experience it.
my advice, leave this kind of things to Allah.
its none of our concerns yet.
seriously.
i know it is the same old stuff but this is what you need to believe in.

hence, note that your love is only for Allah now.
and, focus on your studies first.
insyaAllah, you'll meet the miss/ (mr) right. xD

dude, it takes time. but once you have the niat,
insyaAllah, you'll be over it. soon or not, Allah knows better.

till then,
peace!